It is very individual for each person. Most of the people that I talk to say:
• “I really love smoking…it is the only thing that I do for myself…”
• “It is my companion…my lover…my best friend…”
• “It is my way to relax…my way to deal with stress…”
• “It is always there for me…my quiet time…and so why would I want to give up all of that!”
What was the main reason you decided to start smoking in the very beginning?
You didn’t know what it was going to be like to smoke.
You did not know if it would relax you…You certainly had your assumptions about what it would do or feel like, but you really did not know.
Why did you have that first cigarette?
- Peer Pressure
- to fit into an environment
- Rebellion
- to look older and cool
Now let’s take a closer look at these reasons, and whether or not they still hold true today….
- Is the peer group still pressuring you to smoke? I bet Those same people, if they are still around, are pressuring you to quit.
- Are you still hanging around smoky environments? More and more places are now smoke-free
- Are you still rebelling against the same people? Probably not…..now you are probably rebelling because people are telling you where to smoke and how long you can be there.
- Are you still trying to look older? Most people say…”yeah, I guess it worked to make me look older”.
- Do you still think it makes you look sophisticated?
If you take the original reason that you started and reverse it, that will be the reason that will be motivating to help you quit smoking!
If something will motivate you one time, it will motivate you again. Now use the reason that motivated you to start smoking, in reverse, to help motivate you to quit smoking.
If you started for peer pressure, now let that peer pressure work for you to pressure you to quit (sort of pressuring you the other way). Let the people that want you to quit be a part of your quitting experience.
Maybe your environment is now smoke-free. Maybe it is even a hassle now to go and have a cigarette. If your environment has changed, let that be a motivator for you.
If you started for rebellion, let that rebellion work for you. For instance, you might not be rebelling against the same people anymore, but in order to have a cigarette you have to go outside to smoke, or it might be a big hassle to smoke. So you can rebel against all the restrictions and let that be a motivator for you.
If you started smoking to look older, guess what, it worked! Now you want to look younger and you know if you quit you would look younger, and would not have those deep crevices that smoking creates. If you started smoking to look older, now you can quit smoking to look younger and more rejuvenated. Let that work for you to motivate you.
Remember—The way you do anything is the way you do everything.
If it motivated you one time, it will motivate you again, and it will actually help You quit smoking.
Lela Bryan
http://www.nicotinesolutions.com
The Personal Approach to Quitting Smoking and Changing your Life!
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